Love Transforms An Obnoxious Boss!
I want to share with you a story about the most obnoxious boss I have ever known. If his behavior can change through the power of love, anyone's can!
Here is my story:
While I was working in an alternative program for juvenile offenders, I was introduced to one of the state leaders of this program. Jack was the most obnoxious person I had ever met.
When I met him, he showed me the silver pig he wore on his necklace. He said he just wanted me to know how he felt about women. I spent the day listening to one sexual innuendo after another. He would never get away with that behavior today, but in 1974, he was the boss, and I was the employee. I was furious.
Fortunately, the program's main office was out of town, and with any luck, I would never see him again. However, to my great dismay, I learned that two weeks hence our program was having a state meeting that I was obligated to attend. I was very distraught about my relationship with Jack, and I would soon have to face him again. Somehow, I had to find a way to survive this encounter.
During this time, someone reminded me of my earlier experience using the spiritual force of love. I decided to use my relationship with this troublesome person as the ultimate experiment. If love could change him, it could do anything.
Immediately, I began to use this powerful technique, which included visualizing myself with Jack and imagining the two of us interacting in a positive way. I knew I did not have the right to transform the way he interacted with others. Such behavior was his choice; but, I could use love to transform his behavior with me.
At first, the process was difficult for me. I was so angry with Jack that I had trouble imagining him surrounded with love. However, I persisted in my experiment and by the time the two weeks were up, I was not only able to send him love, but my anger had also subsided. I had even developed a sense of compassion for him.
As I walked into the first session of our state meeting, I was nervous about seeing this program leader who had caused me so much distress. To my chagrin, Jack was the first person I saw. He walked right over to me, held out his hand, and apologized for hurting my feelings. I was surprised at his response, but I shook his hand and accepted his apology. I was pleased with how the power of love had affected him, but I did not think it was any great miracle, at least not until I received feedback from five people who observed the encounter.
Each person in his or her own words told me how unusual the interaction had been. Apparently, this man was well known for his unwillingness to accept responsibility for his actions. He hardly ever apologized, and if he did, it was done behind closed doors. What made our experience so unusual was that he not only apologized to me, but he did it in front of at least 20 people!
Based on this information, I had to accept that the power of love had performed yet another miracle. Love had done a marvelous job helping me create peace and harmony in my life.
Using this process I have successfully enhanced many of my relationships, reduced the strain at family gatherings, and influenced people to treat me with favor in my business affairs.
You too can use the power of love to change your life.
Click Here to get all the information you need to put the spiritual force of love to work in your life.
I want to share with you a story about the most obnoxious boss I have ever known. If his behavior can change through the power of love, anyone's can!
Here is my story:
While I was working in an alternative program for juvenile offenders, I was introduced to one of the state leaders of this program. Jack was the most obnoxious person I had ever met.
When I met him, he showed me the silver pig he wore on his necklace. He said he just wanted me to know how he felt about women. I spent the day listening to one sexual innuendo after another. He would never get away with that behavior today, but in 1974, he was the boss, and I was the employee. I was furious.
Fortunately, the program's main office was out of town, and with any luck, I would never see him again. However, to my great dismay, I learned that two weeks hence our program was having a state meeting that I was obligated to attend. I was very distraught about my relationship with Jack, and I would soon have to face him again. Somehow, I had to find a way to survive this encounter.
During this time, someone reminded me of my earlier experience using the spiritual force of love. I decided to use my relationship with this troublesome person as the ultimate experiment. If love could change him, it could do anything.
Immediately, I began to use this powerful technique, which included visualizing myself with Jack and imagining the two of us interacting in a positive way. I knew I did not have the right to transform the way he interacted with others. Such behavior was his choice; but, I could use love to transform his behavior with me.
At first, the process was difficult for me. I was so angry with Jack that I had trouble imagining him surrounded with love. However, I persisted in my experiment and by the time the two weeks were up, I was not only able to send him love, but my anger had also subsided. I had even developed a sense of compassion for him.
As I walked into the first session of our state meeting, I was nervous about seeing this program leader who had caused me so much distress. To my chagrin, Jack was the first person I saw. He walked right over to me, held out his hand, and apologized for hurting my feelings. I was surprised at his response, but I shook his hand and accepted his apology. I was pleased with how the power of love had affected him, but I did not think it was any great miracle, at least not until I received feedback from five people who observed the encounter.
Each person in his or her own words told me how unusual the interaction had been. Apparently, this man was well known for his unwillingness to accept responsibility for his actions. He hardly ever apologized, and if he did, it was done behind closed doors. What made our experience so unusual was that he not only apologized to me, but he did it in front of at least 20 people!
Based on this information, I had to accept that the power of love had performed yet another miracle. Love had done a marvelous job helping me create peace and harmony in my life.
Using this process I have successfully enhanced many of my relationships, reduced the strain at family gatherings, and influenced people to treat me with favor in my business affairs.
You too can use the power of love to change your life.
Click Here to get all the information you need to put the spiritual force of love to work in your life.